A group of seven former college friends gather for a weekend reunion at a posh South Carolina winter house after the funeral of one of their friends.
Release Year: 1983
Rating: 7.1/10 (15,923 voted)
Critic's Score: 61/100
Stars: Tom Berenger, Glenn Close, Jeff Goldblum
A seminal Thirty-Something movie in which a group of old college friends who are now all grown up and hardened by the big wide world come together for the funeral of Alex, a barely glimpsed corpse, who was at one time the brightest and the best of them, and yet who never managed to achieve half as much as any of the others. The friends use the occasion to reacquaint themselves with each other and to speculate as to what happened to their idealism which had been abundant when they were younger.
Writers: Lawrence Kasdan, Barbara Benedek
Mary Kay Place
Peter the Cop
Harold and Sarah's Son
Running Dog Driver
(as Jacob Kasdan)
Spend some time with a few good friends.
Release Date: 28 September 1983
Filming Locations: Atlanta, Georgia, USA
Opening Weekend: $3,662,152
(2 October 1983)
Did You Know?
The soundtrack of the movie consisted of many 1960s-era rock songs. Because of the success of the soundtrack, dozens of TV commercials used music from the same period.
In the opening sequence, when the guests arrive at the funeral, an elderly couple obviously receives the sign to start walking (which seems to be their only role) just a second or so to late, so you see them standing still for a split second before taking off.
Alex and I made love the night before he died. It was fantastic.
He went out with a bang, not a whimper.
Reality staring you in the face
There was something about this movie which I couldn't place my finger on.
Although I barely made the 60's, of which all the characters are
of and therefore perhaps I maybe missed some subtle messages or didn't get
some in-jokes about the 60's, this movie still applies to everyone. I
guarantee every generation will have a time where they come back after 10
15 years and see friends that had been so important but are now barely on
the radar. They will have a weekend of drinking and tears and fights and
laughter. You will look at someone and remember a deep, hidden passion
them that you felt so long ago and never shared with anyone.
That is of course, the plot of the movie.
7 friends (who go wayyy back) one husband (who disappears pretty quickly)
and a widowed girlfriend (who is barely known by anyone) come together
they learn that Alex, a friend formally part of the clique, had committed
suicide (this part was infamously played by Kevin Costner). They have a
weekend of sex, drugs, and good ol' fashioned rock and roll, the whole
bringing up past ghosts that had seemed long forgotten and faded. This is
touchy subject, even in today's standards. Yet the movie handles it
beautifully. My favourite section in the whole movie was when `You can't
always get what you want' was played at his funeral. Not for the song,
although it is a classic but for how the characters react. Each sit there
in the church, some smiling quietly to themselves, while others have a
sadden expression, remembering great times that were and never will be
again. Every person has a song like that, one that makes you remember
friends, one that makes you sad or laugh and or grin to yourself as you
remember the things you did. That to me clinches the movie. It shows how
true the script is, and how humanly the characters react. There is a lot
angry hype about the movie, how there is too much talking and not enough
or car chases or whatever people think is missing. Yet for me, it is
reality. When something like this happens in real life, people do not
dramatise. Life is not a soap opera, although movie-goers seemed to want
this movie to be. In a real-life situation, people would do exactly what
the characters did, examine themselves and try to find a reason for the
problems that have happened. Yet the hard truth is, especially about
suicide, sometimes, there is no one you can blame. I think people didn't
like this movie too much because it rang too true. It was too realistic.
People go the movies to be entertained, to fall in love with the
lives that movies have. This movie is honest. It seems, for now, people
just want to be naïve and live in a fantasy world. If you want a true
movie, see this one now.